About Us

My Story

WeThrive was born from a lifelong dream and a journey marked by resilience, growth, and transformation. In 1982, I entered graduate school with the vision of someday opening my own private practice. However, life led me along many different paths before I finally stepped into private practice in 2015.
In February 2017, I experienced the profound loss of my spouse, becoming an unexpected widow—far earlier in life than I ever anticipated. Just six months later, I opened WeThrive Counseling Center. The timing was not planned, but the name and mission were deeply intentional. WeThrive reflects the belief that we are all in a constant state of growth—clients and therapists alike—thriving in different ways and at different times throughout our lives.

At WeThrive, we embrace the idea that growth never ends. Life continually presents opportunities to learn, heal, and evolve, and it is our hoor to walk alongside our clients in that process.

– Mari Butterfield, Founder

Our Team

Mari Butterfield, LCSW

Therapist & Owner

Helping You Build Stronger, Healthier Relationships. My passion and expertise lie in helping individuals and couples create thriving, fulfilling relationships. I have extensive training in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy(Level 2), am a certified Leader of Gottman’s Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, and am trained in Treating Trauma and Affairs in Couples. Whether you’re facing challenges or simply want to strengthen your bond, you deserve to experience the best relationship possible — and I can help you get there.

In addition to couple’s work, I integrate parts work into my sessions — a gentle, affirming, and insightful approach that helps clients explore the many parts of themselves with compassion and understanding. This method often leads to powerful self-awareness and lasting growth.

Throughout our lives, we all encounter times when we need support. My goal is to help you navigate these moments with openness, honesty, and clarity. Clients often tell me they feel comfortable with my direct, compassionate style — I believe life is too short for anything less than honest, meaningful work.

I work with all types of relationships, including romantic partners (of all genders), siblings, parents, adult children, and more. If you are seeking greater connection, understanding, and healing, I am here to support you every step of the way. Let’s work together to build the relationships you deserve.

Amanda Maves, LPC-S

Clinical Director

I am passionate about supporting individuals in creating meaningful, positive change in their lives. My work centers on providing a safe, nonjudgmental space where clients can explore their experiences, process difficult emotions, and move toward healing. I believe that therapy is a collaborative journey, and I strive to walk alongside each person with empathy, respect, and genuine care.

I have specialized training in trauma, grief, attachment, and relationship dynamics, and I work primarily with adults and adolescents navigating the effects of trauma, loss, depression, and anxiety. My approach is grounded in evidence-based practices and tailored to meet each client where they are.

Reaching out for help is a courageous act. Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or simply ready for change, my goal is to create a therapeutic space where you feel seen, supported, and empowered.

Leigha Wooley, LPC-S

Therapist

I find that life is ever-changing. Some changes come with excitement and planning, others confront us with no warning. New circumstances, situations, relationships, and everything else life presents can leave us thinking we are lost and feeling alone. Through examination and reflection, we can grow to overcome these challenges. I believe my clients are the experts on their experience, but sometimes it’s hard to see the capabilities you have while our minds are intensely focused on issues at hand. Through partnering in a safe, professional relationship – we can navigate these paths and find better understanding.

I have attended multiple trainings and completed a nationally recognized testing program through Postpartum Support International (PSI) to achieve an additional licensing as a Certified Perinatal Mental Health Professional.

The decision to expand your family can be any and all emotions tied into one experience: joy, fear, excitement, worry (just to name the most common). I’m here to support you through fertility struggles, pregnancy growth, and homecoming adjustments. And, if an unimaginable loss occurs, I welcome the opportunity to sit in your grief with you. No reaction to this new phase of life is unworthy of us honoring and exploring it together.

GRANT WEST, LPC

THERAPIST

The content of our lives varies, and yet the feelings we experience are universal. It makes no difference where we come from; the language of feelings is ever present. As your therapist, allow me to walk with you through the healing process. Healing from the distress of everyday life or through traumatic events, you and I together can develop the tools you need to grow. You can expect warmth, compassion, and safety as we collaborate in your treatment. I am grateful for any opportunity to help and look forward to walking with you on your journey.

I am a licensed professional counselor who practices solution-focused and cognitive behavioral therapies to help individuals create hope and growth. I specialize in trauma treatment by utilizing written exposure therapy (WET) – a brief treatment approach that can help alleviate symptoms of PTSD within 5 sessions.

JOHN MULLIGAN, MS, LPC

THERAPIST

It has been said that “Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans.” We often face uncertainty that was not something we would have chosen, whether it be changes in relationships, work, our environment, or anything that life throws at us. We often spend years in repetitive cycles before we recognize there is a problem. For those with the courage to begin counseling, they are often pleasantly surprised that unraveling those problems can happen relatively quickly!

I believe people are extremely resilient, often just needing a slight change of direction to feel better. Our thoughts are sometimes fragmented and confusing when we are overwhelmed. Through therapy, it is possible to conceptualize and solidify these thoughts, giving you the ability to take action. Feedback I have received is that I am down to earth and genuine. I would consider it an honor to assist you along your path.

DESTINY RIDDLE, LPC

THERAPIST

Hi! My name is Destiny and I am a licensed professional counselor. I enjoy working with children, adolescents, and adults that may be struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma and adjusting to life changes. I believe that every person deserves to have a space where they are seen, heard, and understood.

My goal is to help individuals develop skills, grow, and feel empowered to tackle the challenges we face in life. My hope is that we can work together to help you grow past whatever you may be going through and feel empowered to continue on knowing that whatever you may have gone through or may be going through does not define who you are.

I utilize evidenced-based best practices such as cognitive behavioral and solution-focused practices to assist individuals with their goals while promoting growth by meeting them where they are. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), a modality primarily used to treat trauma-related conditions that utilizes bilateral stimulation to assist in reducing distress, reprocess memories, and create adaptive resolutions. I am also trained in Parts Work, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Trauma Focused-Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), a trauma modality for children and adolescents (3-18).

Wherever you may be today, I’m excited to meet you there.

Alena Hallum, LPC

THERAPIST

I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor with a relational, systems-based approach to therapy. I believe that each person is shaped by the larger systems around them- family, culture, community- and that healing often begins with understanding how we relate to these forces. I work with individuals, couples, and families and all ages, creating a compassionate space where clients can feel safe, supported, and empowered.

My style is grounded in evidence-based practices and genuine connection. I place deep emphasis on the healing power of relationship- both within and beyond the counseling space. I am informed by Internal Family Systems (IFS)- and I integrate parts work when helpful, among other integrative approaches to fit each client’s individual needs.

If connection is at the core of the human experience, then building a meaningful therapeutic relationship becomes the foundation for lasting change. My clients often notice this early on in our work together.

If you’re unsure about starting therapy, I welcome your questions. I’m happy to help you explore whether I’m the right fit- or guide you toward someone who is.

You’ve come this far, and that matters! I would be honored to walk with you from here…

Rachel Gilmore, LPC

THERAPIST

In our world, mental health is often met with judgement and criticism. Often people do not grasp the depth and complexities of suffering that occur within our minds and in our world.

In my view, therapy is a space where what is unspeakable can become acknowledged and what is misunderstood can become accepted. As a licensed professional counselor, I believe all people are unique in their beliefs, life experiences, and cultural backgrounds,

thus I do not believe in a one size fits all therapy. I enjoy getting to know my clients as a whole person, not as simply a symptom or diagnosis.

I believe our connections to others help foster growth and change. I enjoy exploring relationship dynamics, life stressors, thoughts, and emotions with my clients. I express empathy and warmth to my clients, while striving to be both gentle and direct in my conversations. I enjoy working with clients struggling with substance use, problematic gambling behaviors, anxiety, depression, and OCD. I work with adults ages 18 and older. I have training in acceptance and commitment therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, and exposure and response prevention.

I recognize starting therapy is anxiety inducing. Please know, I will work to provide a warm and welcoming environment where we can work collaboratively on your concerns. Reach out, I am here for you..

Gina DeLoache

Office Manager

Meet Gina – The Heart of Our Front Office

Gina is the first point of contact at WeThrive, and she sets the tone with her warmth, compassion, and can-do attitude. Her goal is simple: to help people—by listening closely, staying organized, and removing any barriers that might stand between you and the support you need.
From answering phone calls and coordinating with insurance companies to scheduling appointments, managing payments, keeping our systems running, and making sure we never run out of coffee or chocolate—Gina does it all. Her attention to detail and deep care for others help keep everything (and everyone) on track.

Gina lives out WeThrive’s core values every day: patients come first, we always call you back, and if we can’t help, we’ll connect you with someone who can. She makes it possible for our therapists to focus on what they do best—providing quality care—by ensuring the rest runs smoothly.

Simply put, Gina makes everything possible.

Meet Benson & Sammy

Sammy has been at WeThrive for 6 years, Benson just getting started

Pet therapy is a broad term that includes animal-assisted therapy and other animal-assisted activities. Animal-assisted therapy is a growing field that uses dogs or other animals to help people recover from or better cope with health problems, such as heart disease, cancer and mental health disorders.

Benefits of Pet Therapy:
♥ Lowers blood pressure.
♥ Improves cardiovascular health.
♥ Releases endorphins (oxytocin) that have a calming effect.
♥ Diminishes overall physical pain.
♥ The act of petting produces an automatic relaxation response, reducing the amount of medication some folks need.

A Warm, Private, and Welcoming Environment

Our office is thoughtfully designed to ensure your comfort, privacy, and peace of mind. Nestled in a quiet and discreet location, we are well-equipped to serve high-profile individuals and anyone seeking a confidential, supportive space.

We understand that life’s challenges don’t always fit into a 9-to-5 schedule. That’s why we offer flexible appointment times, including late afternoons, evenings, and weekends, to better accommodate your needs.

You don’t have to face life’s challenges alone. Call today — together, we can begin the work toward healing, growth, and positive change.

Insurance Accepted

Monday to Thursday

10:00 AM - 7:00 PM

Friday, Saturday and Sunday by appointment

Contact

9226-A South Elwood Ave
Jenks, OK 74037

P: 918-209-5779
F: 918-209-5783